The Roundup Record-Tribune, the weekly newspaper from our hometown, has been taking up most of its front page for a couple of years with stories from past issues. That's because Roundup, Montana, officially turned 100 years old this year.
I've devoted a lot of time over the past year reading about things that I knew nothing about as I learned how my hometown grew from 1908 until 1959 when I was born. However, I learned a few other things from about 1959 until 1970 because I didn't really pay much attention to such things as who owned what stores, what pioneer rancher died, who was the mayor and sat on the city council, etc. So you can imagine by wonderment when finally the newspapers started to arrive with some old news that I actually recognized, like the girls who won the state golf championship in 1975. I knew those girls and went to college with a couple of them.
But sadly, the years I actually knew about, or cared about, occurred in only a couple of weeks worth of newspapers. Now the newspaper that arrives in my mailbox has jumped into the 1980s and I had left town years earlier after graduating from high school in 1977. So again I'm reading about history that I had no part of or no stake in. It's people whose names some times sound familiar but I can't seem to come up with a face for the name.
When I grew up the mayor was Hershel Robbins and the sheriff was Troy Palmer's dad. The principal was Jay Erdie and the superintendent was Bob Krogh. However, they don't last forever and new people take their place...people who I don't know.
In the final analysis, I've come to understand that very little of my life actually revolved around Roundup. Yes, I was born there, my family lived there, my cousins lived there, my grandmothers lived there and my parents lived there most -- if not all -- of their lives, but for me, it was a brief 17 years and most of that time I was too young to care about any newsworthy events.
I know once upon a time there was a clothing store in Roundup named "Who's Allen" but I can't remember ever going into it...although I suppose I did when I was a kid. I remember the Knauss dime store about as good as anything. And I remember taking Hunter's Safety classes in the basement of the Arcade from Mr. Heinle who owned the Gamble's store across the street. I remember Model grocery because it was across the street from the elementary school. Now when I look at the building, I can't believe that it was so small because it seemed so large when I was a kid.
This makes me wonder what my grandparents would have thought if they had lived to see the size of a Super Wal-Mart or Sam's Club.
I liked shopping at Model grocery because I knew the family that owned it. The Picchioni's -- from Frank Senior to Frank the third -- were all nice people. Louie, their cousin, worked behind the meat counter, and I liked him, too. I went to school with three of Louie's daughters and they were nice, too.
But alas, the store is closed. And a few remnants of the Picchioni family run the IGA store, but it's not the same. It doesn't have the "family" feel because I don't know these third and fourth generation folks. And a couple of them, I'm pretty sure, aren't really Picchioni's.
You see, I left town when I was hardly more than an adolescent. And while I returned to visit my folks, that in fact is what I did...I visited my folks. I didn't renew old friendships or strike up new ones or find out who the new mayor was -- except when it was my aunt Almeada. So now I when I read about Roundup in the '80, the '90s and the last decade, I can continue to scratch my head and ask "who are these people?"
The Roundup I knew is only recognizable in my dreams.
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I, too, enjoy reading the newspapers from places I have called home. Being a PK, that adds up to about four home towns. I read the Renville Co. Farmer from Mohall and see names that I recognize. In my mind, it's a frame captured in time. I see it as I remember it. I also enjoy keeping up with old classmates to see where life has taken them. Makes me a little nostalgic.
This post brings to mind an old song,"Where have all the Flowers Gone".At some point in the song are the words,"Gone to graveyards, everyone."West of Roundup about one mile there is just such a place.I go there a couple times a year with flowers.While I'm there I walk around all the grave sights,it's always kinda cold,and by the time I'm finished I wish I would have brought more flowers.I told my wife a few years back,here lies the Roundup I Know.I knew every family in town when I was growing up.As I drove through town I Knew the occupants in every house.Nowadays I read the names on headstones and remember the smiles of those who have gone on.Helen and Don Byford,they were always smiling!I couldn't believe how many magazines Don bought from me when I was raising money for my class.They lost a son in Vietnam,Gary Byford.He was always smiling,too,as I recall. Every name has a story like that.I don't remember how or when most of them left but their names are engraved on stone and their memories remain as I last saw them.In the graves south of Roundup there are similar stories and memories.When we get the Roundup paper I glance at the back page to see if I know anyone."Thats all I have to say about that".You don't have to go back that far for this one.Let me tell you about walking into one of those big stores for the first time.We lived in Melstone and Lima when stores got BIG.Our first experience with a big store was in Greatfalls Mt..Janice and I looked at each other in total amazement.I remember saying,"can you believe how big this store is?It's bigger than Lima!"Thanks for cellphones,a person could wander aimlessly for hours looking for someone.
Ar Vee - Once again your comment is more poignant than my original post. You are a poet and a painter with words. You articulate the thoughts and feelings that are at the core of my being. I wrote my comment hoping that I could get you to comment and I'm not disappointed. Good luck with the refs in Whitefish this weekend, and if you see Gomer, or any of the other Whitefish glitterati ad the hockey game, tell them hi.
One other thought about Gary Byford...I was at the Vietman Wall shortly after it opened about 20-some year ago. Anyway, I found Gary's name engraved in the black stone. A man from Richey, Montana, was standing next to me with fingers in the engraving of a friend's anme. He was sobbing quietly but I heard him say, "This my quarterback when we were in high school." He was probably 45 at the time and I was about 25. I've been to the Vietnam Memorial probably four or five times since then and I've never failed to have been touched by somebody there. Last time it was a human sitting all alone on a park bench, staring at the wall and crying. Was it for her father, her husband, her brother...it didn't matter who. What mattered was how deeply she cared and how much she had lost.
Ar Vee and Steve- your comments reminded me of a poem a friend had given me a few years back at camp one summer. I carry it in my camera case - practically every where I go - to remind me what an impact one has on others. It was written by Alton Maiden who was a star football player for Notre Dame University.
"The Dash" Alton Maiden
I've seen death stare at me with my own eyes in a way many cannot know.
I've seen death take others but still left me below.
I've heard many scream of mother's cries but death refuses to hear.
In my life I've seen faces fill with many tears.
After death has come and gone a tombstone sits for many to see.
But it is no more than a symbol of a person's memory.
I've seen my share of tombstones but never took the time to truly read.
The meaning behind what is there for others to see.
Under the person's name it read the date of birth, dash, and the date the person passed.
But the more I think about the tombstone, the important thing is the dash.
Yes, I see the name of the person but that I might forget.
I also read the date of birth and death but even that might not stick.
But thinking about the individual I can't help but to remember the dash,
because it represents a person's life and that will always last.
So when you begin to charter your life make sure you're on a positive path.
Because people may forget your birth and death but they will never
forget your dash.
How I remember the Model Grocery Store...every noon when I was a teenager my friends and I would go over to the candy counter and buy a Sirs candy bar. I'm sure I couldn't bite into them now, but they were sure good back then. The most vivid memory of the store was when I would be sitting in class across the street and look out the window only to see my Mom's car parked on the street. How I wanted to be with her. I missed her so much as I sat at my desk trying to concentrate on school. I loved Roundup because my Mom loved the little town she lived in. I tried to get to know her friends in later years, as mine had moved away. ArVee is right in that most of the people I once knew are now names on headstones, bit I still try to pick out someone I know from the Tribune that my Dad gets.
Well I got to gripe some more...this week's Roundup newspaper devoted nearly three whole pages to the years 1980, 1981 and 1982. I can't believe it. The 70's got short shrift compared to the first three years of the 80s. By the time I finished reading the "old news" (isn't that an oxymoron), I was seeing red. I should probably mention that next week's Record-Tribune will have an obituary of our Uncle Wayne on the back page. And as Ar Vee says, another personage from our hometown will be laid to rest. And as Beagle says, there was quite a dash to remember between the years 1932 and 2008. I remember Uncle Wayne as he was in his 30s -- hitting pop flies to Richie and me, taking us fishing or going to the movies for a John Wayne flick with Uncle Roy. Wayne had a heart for family as big as anybody...one of the truly great gentlemen. One of the funniest things I remember growing up was heading to Wayne's house in the summer of 1969 to watch the first moon landing. The TV signal was only black and white, but we thought it would look better if we saw it on Uncle Wayne's color TV set. Betty and Wayne were also the first people I knew that had an aluminum Christmas tree. Do you remember that? It had a light that shown on it that changed from green to red to gold. I thought it was as glitzy as anything I had ever seen. I hope, like Ar Vee said, that Uncle Wayne had lunch today with Mom and Grandma Anderson in heaven. Someday we'll join them for the feast in the sky!
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