One of the privileges of having Grandpa live with us is we have now come to look forward to more visits from my brothers and sisters. Prior to July 2006 when Dad moved from Roundup to Mandan, the only relatives that came to visit were my nephew David and his family (who live in Plentywood) and my sister Janet and her family (who live in Rapid City). Now we are visited by my brothers Randy and his family (who live in Bozeman), Gene and his family (who live in Billings) and my sister Susan and her husband (who live in Pocatello).
But nearly every week, we have the opportunity to visit with them as they call or we call to find out how we're doing and what's new. Last night was just one on those opportunities.
My sister Janet spent the weekend in Parkston, South Dakota, watching her grandson Joshua while his parents sprinted away to Sioux Falls to attend a concert in honor of Valentines Day and their third wedding anniversary. Joshua is the little boy, now nearing his first birthday, who had such a tough time of it for the first six months of his life because he couldn't produce any red blood cells and needed lots of transfusions. However, that all seems to be behind him and the little boy is now learning to walk. What a champ.
Gene had spent the better part of his week at basketball games and his youngest son Colton is one of the players for the Broadview team. They are heading into districts this weekend and have even made plans to head to Miles City in two weeks for the divisionals. Now that's an optimistic Dad. We wish Colton and his team the best.
Talking about sports, Randy and his family spent their weekend in Havre watching his youngest son Patrick play hockey. Randy was joined by his oldest son Gary for the trek from southwestern Montana (Bozeman) to northeastern Montana (Havre). Although Pat's team didn't win, Randy said it was fun watching them play as Pat gives it his all out there on the ice.
Then there's Susan and Rich way out west in Pocatello. We found out that their oldest child (Dylan) is planning on getting married on July 11th. They just had another wedding in Bozeman when their daughter Marissa got married on the last day of January. Their youngest daughter Lindsay was the first to marry. She and her husband Kris are waiting now to hear about an offer they made on a motel in Washington.
Now, we also got a call from Dad's sister Ruth out in Salem, Oregon, Ruth had five children, three sons and two daughters, however, the youngest daughter Amy was killed by a drunk driver on Christmas day probably 20 years ago. Anyway, Ruth told us that three of her grandchildren are expecting babies in 2009. She had two great grandchildren in 2008, as well.
So, all in all, Sunday night was very eventful for the Van Dyke family. It's part of our tradition in keeping up with one another. Sure, we exchange e-mails every once in a while and an occasional card, but the glue that keeps us together are the Sunday night phone calls.
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6 comments:
Hey Steve- It was good to talk with you and G Pa on Sunday. I have a beef with your blog tho- I will forgive you since it has been almost six years, but Patrick and I visited you in 2003. I have pictures to prove it! Take care in the frigid East. Is Frosty still decorating your lawn.
You are right...and it was unforgettable. We toured the Enchanted Highway and attended the Medora Musicial. We also have a photo of you underneath the antomically correct Salem Sue. My error.
I like the weekend visits on the phone also.It' nice to get up to date on what everyone is doing in one call.I think the fequency of our visits in the past is a reflection of the way we,at least the older of our family, was raised.We didn't visit many people when I was young.Gene,the oldest, reflects this best but I'm a nervous second.An hour stay at Aunt Sadies' was a long visit in Dads eyes.We never went to visit anyone and stay over-night.That makes traveling to N.D. a little uncomfortable for me because after a short while I'm ready to go.The long trip over there tends to make me feel like staying longer than I like and it's the long road back that keeps me from bailing sooner.Don't get me wrong,I like Steve's He is a great host and we have alot of fun there.I love to spend time with Dad,too;but somewhere in my up-bringing Dad taught me to be a short time company.I see Gene once or twice a year.He is my older brother.They drive to Virginia City to see a Play every year and he stops by to visit me at my store.It's about 4 hours to where he lives.In five to ten minutes he and his family are gone.My wife doesn't understand the short visit but I do.I can't explain it but I understand.I just appreciate the time we have.My relatives on my wife's side think somthing is wrong with me because I like to stay home for the holidays with my family.It was good enough for My Folks and thus I was taught.At 50 somthing I can count my over night visits to my brothers and sisters on one hand.
As the baby of the family and growing up at a time when the family had more money, I remember staying over night at quite a few places including Lyle and Vi's and Dad's sisters out on the coasts. Maybe that's why I don't mind traveling and visiting. As I get older, family continues to mean more to me -- not just my aunts and uncles, brothers and sisters, but also my own children and my neices and nephews. I enjoy them all. I sat by my nephew in Bismarck on Saturday during lunch and tortured him with questions about his girlfriend Gabby in the same manner I have quizzed my other nephews and nieces. His stories, however, were a lot more interesting than some. Seems they got stuck the other night down by the river and had to call his dad to pull their truck out of a snow bank. And Gabby is a two tatoo lady at 16 so seems quite lively.
Well Steve- I am glad that I'm not your only victim of your interregations of girlfriends. As far as family and roadtrips go- I love road trips and love seeing family members and hanging out with my cousins!
I don't know where I fit into the Van Dyke family, but I love company, the more the merrier. I have a wedding coming up for my son in July and I welcome anyone at our table. I used to long for company when I was a little girl, but I was okay with just Grandma Anderson. I also love to spend time with my brothers and sister, all of them. The only ones I get a real chance to visit with are my siblings closest to my age, Steve and Randy. I love their families and I feel right at home in their presence and I'm not afraid to tell them I'm coming to visit because I know they'll welcome us with open arms. I also love my extended family and visiting with my kids, nieces and nephews. I just wish I could visit with all of them.
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