May 7, 2009, would be my mom's 85th birthday. She was born to Clarence and Gladys Anderson in Roundup, Montana. She was the oldest of three daughters and the second oldest of eight children. Only two of the Anderson children are still alive -- mom's sister Ginny and her brother Harold, the baby of the family.
We sent some money to our cousin Connie, who still lives in Roundup, to place some flowers on mom's grave tomorrow. Connie said she would buy yellow roses, which were my mom's favorite flower.
Connie said the passing of my mom has left a large void in her life. Connie came and saw my parents every morning and maybe a couple of other times during the day depending how busy she was at the local diner, the Busy Bee.
I think everyone feels a void in their life when a parent dies...especially when you were close. There are so many times when I've wanted to call her and tell her some good news.
But then I'm reminded of some words my brother Randy wrote....
"I thought of you again today, and asked God to say hello.
I know how happy you are when we call home.
I just like to stay in touch, may the Lord let you know
And I'm sure that He does, we love you very much."
4 comments:
Steve- Every time I am in Roundup I drive by Grandma and Grandpas- just to check up on things. I will always remember the warmth and love that was felt in that house with family nearby. I recall the endless hours of playing cards and Grandma always offering cookies, crackers, and of course pop. Every day I miss Grandma and the love that she showed to her children, grand children, and great grand children. Despite my numerous returns to Roundup there is always a void here- both sets of my Grandparents. Happy birthday Grandma!
C.S. Lewis, the Christian author who penned "The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe" lost his mother at the age of 10. He wrote often of his grief and mourning for his mother. In paraphrase, he expressed that after his mother died, nothing was every quite right again. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my prayers. It's wonderful to have family and friends who remember her with smiles and kindness
Very touching,Steve! Very touching!
How Beautiful!
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